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Some New Years Thickspiration: Miss Kitty Victorian

  • Posted on December 31, 2008 at 7:45 pm

 

Miss Kitty Victorian
Miss Kitty Victorian

Miss Kitty Victorian is a burlesque dance performer and instructor in the Washington DC area.  Check out her website for performances and information on taking classes.

Happy 2009! Handle Your Bitches

  • Posted on at 7:25 pm

Hey ladies!  I’d like to wish you all a fun and happy new year
or “Sylvester”.  Of course, being the mother hen that I am, I’d like
to remind you to not drink and drive, to not ride as a passenger with someone
who is drunk, and to leave with the same friends you went out with.

As usual, I’m going out with the guys.  This is partly because
most of my friends are guys, and my female friends all have other plans
(read dates).  I kind of have a date too, my PSO (platonic significant
other, and yes that’s a complicated story).

About bitches, tonight is one of those nights you might want to be generous
towards the decent men in your past.  Yeah, I know you’re in shock
that I’m proposing any kind of backtracking or lightening up, but holidays
are special.  Relationships don’t always work the way we planned,
and this isn’t always someone’s fault.  On those nights when it might
be nice to have someone to wake up next to, an old bitch is better than
a new bastard.

Dirty Male Shit Test: I’m Open Minded, But How Many?

  • Posted on at 4:36 am

A post on identifying sluts by an Alpha wannabe (who has Cartmanesque hysterical fits whenever a female commenter doesn’t recognize his authoritaah) sparked some interesting comments. Some of them suggested as a way to flush out (shit test) sluts, that a man pretend to be open minded and non judgemental before springing the question of how many men she’s had sex with on her.

I thought of replying: You guys do realize, don’t you, that it is much easier for a whore to keep her legs closed than it is for a woman who sincerely likes you. By condemning “sluts”, and defining so many women with good intentions as such, you’re basically shooting yourselves in the foot.

True Nature: A Theory of Sexual Attraction

  • Posted on December 30, 2008 at 1:50 pm

Michael R. Kauth theorizes that sexual attraction develops from a combination if in-born genetic and social factors. Natural tendencies are exploited or triggered, or reactions to things regulated by one’s environment, and intepreted through one’s culture. It’s a very interesting read.

Why NOT to Have Pre Commitment Sex

  • Posted on at 4:55 am

Avoiding the promiscuity trap…or what vanilla girls can learn from
Femdoms.

This post might get a little explicit, but it’s for a good cause. 
It’s about why you shouldn’t have sex outside of a committed relationship,
even if that relationship is non exclusive.  This isn’t moralizing
or judgemental.  It’s in the spirit of harm reduction.  For those
of you out there who may have higher testosterone or be more aggressive
for other reasons, I’ll also cover in a later article, how to get your
needs met without adding to your numbers or ending up humiliated by an
uppity beta.

On a similar pursuit of pleasure, I began to explore the world of legal
weed.  It didn’t take much searching as I already studied herbalism. 
I just did a little reading from those more experienced, so I wouldn’t
destroy my brain, got some herbs, and lit up and made extracts.  My
experiences were so great I thought to myself, “Why does anyone smoke marijuana or sniff coke?”

The answer, of course, is that this is all they know.  They do
it because it’s popular, and they don’t know what else to do.  Another
reason is that when they go to get high, they often want to be completely
obliterated.  It’s a kind of greediness and laziness at the same time.

I’d like you, the reader, to consider that pre commitment sex is
also being done alot more often than it should be, because people don’t know what else to do, want it all right now, and don’t want to have to work particularly hard for it.