Mother Lover

When I saw the original on SNL, I laughed my butt off. Seeing a couple of guys do a lip sync remake of it made me laugh even more, although it would have been nice to also have some older ladies playing the moms. Ah well. Enjoy!

Under RipeNow, before anyone gets on my case about this, I don’t have a problem with appropriately waged age gap relationships. I just have issues with the “cougar” trend that leads older women to think it’s okay to lose your dignity, and younger men to think we’re all desperate or even sexually available to them. The exceptions don’t change the general rule, that age gap relationships are not something anyone who isn’t an extremely independent thinker should do. Quite simply, if you don’t have the guts to go through with it in a way that doesn’t do damage, just don’t go there. Nobody is going to reward you socially for it, so you need to be butch enough to deal with that.

Read this article for some tips on how to fend off the youngsters, or at least let them know you’re not a soft target.  If you do decide to go through with some sort of affair with a young guy, read this article on new masculinity syndrome (NMS).  It will save you a lot of heartache to understand where this generation is at.  Also, because you are going to have a strange dynamic, read this article to check yourself to make sure that you don’t do any damage to him.

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