I’ve decided to make a post about what men really want. Well, maybe not just men in general, but the men who matter: the ones who actually want and/or are in a real relationship.
Since it’s best to let the men speak for themselves, this is basically a list of links. However, it would be irresponsible of me not to post a disclaimer, and that is whatever you read, the woman should be of the same or a socially convenient class. What that is depends on the guy and how socially dependent he is, regardless of his social class. An “omega” male with debilitating shyness who looks like an elf on amphetamines, may think he’s too good for a woman who doesn’t look like a model or a porn star, if he is overly socially dependent. So whatever he says he may want as far as personality starts with the default requirement for the woman to look like someone he would be seen with.
However, it’s good to know what men want so that if you do meet one for whom you are socially convenient, you don’t screw it up by making assumptions based on the advice of people who don’t really relate to men. Men are not so out of touch with their feelings and desires as many may think. What they say they like is usually what they like when the social component is removed or the minimum social requirements are met.
Another disclaimer, the authors of these posts or articles are not responsible for and do not claim any agreement with their commenters. The comments are just perspectives of other readers and should not be viewed as part of the article. Some writers like their comments section to be an area of relatively free expression, where people can discuss and debate ideas. So I don’t want anyone from here trolling or harassing people at any of these sites. Shaming language is frowned upon, so if you’re going to post, leave your feminism at the door, but definitely bring your humanity.
Now, onto the links:
The Rawness – The Perfect Woman: A How-to Guide
A pretty good breakdown of what a relationship minded man who actually gives a darn about the truth with regards to manhood in society today.
The Spearhead – What do men find attractive?
A call to open a dialogue on what men are looking for in a woman.
The Sydney Morning Herald – What Men Want In a Wife
In this article, a nightclub owner admits that when he was younger, it was very important that his girlfriend be very hot, and that all his friends want (to shag) her. He’s a good example of a supposed “alpha” male with a dark, socially dependent underbelly. He says he’s looking for different things now, but a leopard doesn’t change its spots. However, since it is hard to find women who are able to balance the social role of being a hottie and being a good trophy who won’t embarass the family or take half, he may have grown more realistic if not less socially dependent.