The Slut Rules, Rule #2: A slut shouldn’t look like a slut.

You should be well groomed, but not over painted (unless it is required because of cultural signals).  Your dress should be modest.  In fact, you should be more modest than married women typically are in the western world.  Nobody should be able to look at you and tell simply by your attire, that you are available for sex.

It should be clear that you have some dignity, and that you are not on the “open market”.  You are not available to every guy who passes by, so every guy who passes by should have to use their imagination to picture you naked.  If you are seeing someone, then your behavior should also say “unavailable”.

The reason for this, aside of showing that you have some sense of common decency, is to filter out guys who are truly only interested in sex.  Since you are not uncaring, you only want to attract caring people with whom you have some chance of an emotionally legitimate, if not legally recognized relationship.  It also serves to highlight your body language and draw more attention to your face than your body.

For a man’s point of view on this, read Max Roscoe’s article on 8 Things a Woman Can Do to Be More Attractive.  He has morals, but is not an insane moralist, and he gets around his fair share.  No basement neckbeard postulating from masturbatory fantasy here.  So his opinion on what’s attractive in appearance and carriage is balanced and means something in these crazy times.

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