The Slut Rules, Rule #5: Mind the socioeconomic class divisions.

This is a difficult rule for women because we are generally status climbers.  It needs to be said that status climbing is a luxury that only those on the marriage track in stable societies can afford.  This is because in a stable society, males will be allowed to perform their duties of filtering and possibly even selecting mates for their daughters and female relatives.  It’s not a perfect system, but it works out well most of the time.  When a man must face a woman’s father, relatives, or male representative, his accountability and responsibilities are more obvious.

When a woman is doing her own selection and filtering, she should bear in mind that she is not a man.  Regardless of how much like a man she has had to become superficially to survive her situation, she does not think like a man.  She is very vulnerable to higher status men who take advantage of a woman’s tendency to status climb.  On the other hand, if she is of a higher status herself, she may be tempted to use lower status men as amusement, while keeping her options open to find a man of equal or greater status.  Both are a mistake that can lead to drama and heartbreak.

So, a slut should restrict her search to those either within or below her socioeconomic class.  If below, the man must be stable enough that the difference in income is balanced by his social credibility.

The reason for this is that without the possibility of a legally legitimate contract, the whole relationship between you depends on his ability to recognize your womanhood, and your ability to recognize his manhood.  People generally do not know how to identify with people too far from their own socioeconomic class.

A higher status man will fail you.  I won’t muddy that with maybes or possibilities.  It will happen.  He feels that he is slumming, and will not do for you what a man is supposed to do.  The sex will likely feel mechanical or, if you’re very naturally beautiful, be overly fast and more about his ego than your pleasure.  He will annoy the heck out of you, calling or worse messaging you at inappropriate times, as if you don’t have a life.  He will only want to see you if there is some guarantee of sex.

If you were a whore, you could easily juggle five just like him, with little wear and tear on your ladyparts.  This is really not how a woman should feel about her man.

Another damning feature of men in the higher socioeconomic classes is that their parents were more likely to be feminist or at least dysfunctional in some way that is unrecoverable because they were insulated from the consequnces of their stupidity by a soft bed of cash.  When their mom divorced their dad, they were still able to afford to go to a private school, have nannies, and other perks.  When their dad cheated on their mom, he was able to score models and high class hookers that would cost most guys at least a week’s salary.  His dad could buy his mom diamonds to make up for beating the crap out of her, or getting the crap beat out of him by her.  His mom burned her bra in the 60′s because she ate celery for breakfast, lunch, and dinner, and didn’t need underwires to keep her back from curving up like a crazy straw.

He has probably never had anyone to teach him how to be a man.  His parents weren’t really present in his life, or they over indulged his whims.  His nanny was never allowed to introduce him to her husband or boyfriend, or even breathe a word to him about what is wrong with his parents.  So he has no clue how to treat you without paperwork, and probably wouldn’t know even with the paperwork.

So stick with the guys who know what it is to be a man living on the planet Earth.  Leave the rich guys to the rich girls and the hoes.

 

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