The Slut Rules, Rule #6: Listen to your straight male friends (and maybe enemies too).

Your Gay friends may mean well, but they don’t have the same things to lose that you do, and they don’t think like straight men.  So when you need advice about how to deal with men, go to straight men.

Remember that not everyone who kisses your butt is your friend, and not everyone who hates on you is exactly your enemy.  Most of the time, you’ll get the closest thing to the truth, from people who have no interest in making you feel good.  If you’re not very hot and/or young then guys who want to get into your pants will lie to you about your options and prospects.  It’s not that they really mean to deceive you.  They just don’t want you to know that they think you’re ugly because it would ruin their chances of getting with you.

So go to totally platonic friends with whom you have no chance, or your most vocal haters when you want to know what could possibly be on the mind of a guy you’re seeing or thinking about seeing.  This way you’ll be prepared for whatever happens, and your recovery speed will skyrocket.

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