If you are signing up for early aging, baldness, and palomino skin by 30 so you can look “hot” today, you are going to get a man who will dump you as soon as you start paying the price for your stupidity. He doesn’t want to pay the price of having someone a little less trendy today, who is going to still be there when he goes bald and can’t get it up as easily. He’s not thinking about a future, just his image. That isn’t going to change about him. So you don’t need to be a dumbass. You’re not getting anything good for it. Not worth it.