The Slut Rules, Rule #6: Listen to your straight male friends (and maybe enemies too).

Your Gay friends may mean well, but they don’t have the same things to lose that you do, and they don’t think like straight men.  So when you need advice about how to deal with men, go to straight men. Remember that not everyone who kisses your butt is your friend, and not everyone who hates on you is exactly your enemy.  Most of the time, you’ll get the closest thing to the truth, from people who have no interest…

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The Slut Rules: Prelude

Not every woman was cut out for marriage, and not every woman who is, gets lucky.  As one of the unlucky, who found the perfect (for me) husband in all ways except one, I faced a choice of living a completely celibate life, leaving my husband, or becoming technically, a slut.  I chose the latter. Now, I’m neither a moralist nor a moral relativist.  I do not believe that there is an absolute morality, but I do believe that because of…

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10 Useful Facts About Men, G4G Style

Seems like all the relationship experts are publishing their version of “100 facts about men”. Much of what they’re saying though, isn’t extremely useful in the field. Some of it’s actually based on stereotypes that sometimes even men believe about themselves. So the Team G4G has decided to post our own version. We’re not sure if we’ll end up with a full 100, but we’re going to give it a shot. Here are the first 10.

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