Real life is not Hollywood. For some of us who find love, there is no happily ever after with a white picket fence. A slut should never attempt to compete with a wife or cohabitant for a man’s time or resources. Remember, you are not a whore. If a man was, for a time, dumb enough to commit to a whore, then it is not your business to attempt to subvert nature by saving him from her. He must bear the consequences of his actions. If his wife is ill or simply uninterested in sex, it is definitely not cool for you to take away her life companion.
Even if he says he wants to leave his wife, you should discourage him. The only reason a marital (legal or natural) bond should be broken is infidelity (if they agreed to be monogamous), or an unlivable situation such as abuse of him and/or the children. If things aren’t that bad, then he should stay put.
Remember, you are having sex outside a marital bond because something has gone wrong either in your own life or in your society. Taking a father out of the home dooms the children to a similar fate, as they will grow up viewing marriage as a temporary arrangement of convenience rather than a merging of two families. Allow the children to believe in forever, even if you cannot.
Do not make drama. Do not initiate contact with him except in the ways that he says you can. Do not do anything that could break his relationship with his wife. You should be grateful to have the time that you have with him. Consider yourself a member of his harem. If he loves you, then that’s all you should need from him. Nothing more, and hopefully, nothing less.
Continue reading The Slut Rules, Rule #4: Do NOT wreck homes.