Swirling Caution: Closet Racists in Interracial Relationships

You think you’re smart, right?  You know all the signs of a jerk or a sicko, and you’re watchful when you meet this guy.  He passes all of your filters successfully, and seems like a real prize…until a month or later in the relationship.  Suddenly, red flags start popping up everywhere, and you wonder how you missed that this guy was crazy. You didn’t miss any signs.  He is not necessarily a narcissist or borderline.  He doesn’t behave this way…

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