1. It’s got to be about the love.
2. A slut should not look like a slut.
6. Listen to your straight male friends.
7. Do not promote your lifestyle to non sluts.
8. Serve as a pit crew, not a drama queen.
9. Encourage responsible mastery and discourage irresponsible bitchery.
10. Don’t be too proud to beg for sex.
11. Accept only appropriate gifts.
12. Obey the “one dick rule”.
At the beginning of a relationship, if a man calls you creepy, scary, obsessive, or crazy for merely acting as if you’re interested, he thinks you’re ugly. This is what women call men who are acting interested but are not her type. So the proper response is not to speak to him less often. The first time he says it tell him flatly that any time he wants it to stop, all he has to do is say so. If he doesn’t stop it, he’s unlikely to pull that move again. If however, he does, stop speaking to him at all even if he begs you.
This is a guy who believes that he is slumming. You can try, if you like, to drag it out to its inevitable conclusion, but in the end, he will dump you for some reason that amounts to his believing you’re not good enough.
Because of the above, femininity is a better protection from weak men and time wasters than bitchiness.
Femininity is almost universally attractive. In fact, it can make you exponentially more attractive even if you have perceived or actual physical flaws. Men will be drawn to you even if they’re not sure why. However, if they aren’t strong enough for you or something is amiss in their lives that makes them unsuitable for you, your femininity will drive them out of your life much more quickly and decisively than bitchiness.
Behaving mistrustful or dismissively puts men on the defensive. Liars and deceivers expect to be treated with suspicion because they are deceitful. They’re prepared with answers and maneuvers for in case a woman doesn’t believe what they say. Weak men don’t expect to be treated like strong men. In fact, they hate being treated with respect. It happens to them so rarely that it creeps them out.
Giving guys the benefit of the doubt is irrational in a very good and feminine way. Guys who aren’t prepared to be the man in the relationship, will not like it when you automatically begin to be the woman in the relationship. So yes, you’ll lose face because you’re the one reaching out and behaving like their adoring fangirl, but you are the girl, so this isn’t supposed to bother you. Face saving games and keeping “hand” is for men, not for women.
You know a man loves you not when he says it to get sex or more intense sex from you, but when he says it to get you to let him spend money on you.
Somewhere along the line, your man might want to marry you. There’s nothing wrong with this per se, but do realize that it will no longer be a relationship based on trust and free choice to be together. Marriage is quite often the death of a good relationship, just as a contract is the end of good faith.
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Yo I’m the girl who invented the slut rule’s. And hell no these rules are not true. You’ve got tp make yourself appealing but classy. Stick to your own game and never ever do this bout love. Rule #1 never please yourself but please the man your working with. Theredically
Actually, you come off more like a man who may or may not have a vagina, who posted a bunch of sociopathic deathwish material for women who like to get raped or something. My set is for women who understand that gender is not a social construct and that behaving like a man only gets you closeted Gays and psychos.
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