The Slut Rules


The Slut Rules Prelude

1. It’s got to be about the love.

2. A slut should not look like a slut.

3. Do NOT get pregnant.

4. Do NOT wreck homes.

5. Mind the class divisions.

6. Listen to your straight male friends.

7. Do not promote your lifestyle to non sluts.

8. Serve as a pit crew, not a drama queen.

9. Encourage responsible mastery and discourage irresponsible bitchery.

10. Don’t be too proud to beg for sex.

11. Accept only appropriate gifts.

12. Obey the “one dick rule”.

Who are the G4G Slut Rules for?

The Game for Girls Slut Rules are only for women who are, for some reason, unsuitable for or undesiring of marriage in the conventional sense.  They are for women who are either not cut out for the “picket fence”, or who are past the time when this would be plausible barring some major twist of luck.

They are not for young women who would like to be married someday.  Young women on the marriage track should stay virgins or practice abstinence until they are married or betrothed.

These rules are strong suggestions for women who aren’t or can’t go the conventional way, but want to run their relationships with some semblance of sanity.

Other Useful Things Sluts Should Know

Caveat

These rules of courtesy for women in non conventional relationships only apply when the partner is a man (or classically masculine Lesbian aware of the responsibilities that entails). If the guy has NMS (“new masculinity” syndrome), then the one rule is, “Keep your pimp hand strong.” That is, if you want to keep them at all.  Different women have varying levels of tolerance for male feminization.

Still, you can’t fully be their woman because they are not fully men…at least not until they reach a certain level of recovery.

You can only be either their Mistress or the dirt on their shoe unless or until they snap out of it.

“Tender-handed stroke a nettle, And it stings you, for your pains: Grasp it like a man of mettle, And it soft as silk remains.” — Aaron Hill

If you do keep a guy with NMS, you should try as best as you can to help him recover.  Use the opportunity you have, while you have his attention, to train him to access his inner man.  He’s in there, but hasn’t had a safe situation to express himself.  Just remember that you can’t save everyone.  Some are just too far gone.  Also, once some actually find their inner man, that man may be Gay or incompatible with you.

Give him opportunities to be the man.  If he doesn’t take them, then you have to do it if he won’t or can’t.  Give him the chance though.  He might surprise you one day.

Obsession

At the beginning of a relationship, if a man calls you creepy, scary, obsessive, or crazy for merely acting as if you’re interested, he thinks you’re ugly.  This is what women call men who are acting interested but are not her type.  So the proper response is not to speak to him less often, but to confront this issue immediately.  The first time he says it tell him flatly that any time he wants it to stop, all he has to do is say so.  If he doesn’t stop it, he’s unlikely to pull that move again.  If however, he does, stop speaking to him at all even if he begs you.

This is a guy who believes that he is slumming.  You can try, if you like, to drag it out to its inevitable conclusion, but in the end, he will dump you for some reason that amounts to his believing you’re not good enough.

Pulling away or ceasing communication abruptly without that confrontation just extends the waste of time that you could spend on men who do appreciate you.  You’re staying in a dysfunctional dynamic and playing games with yourself.  Nip it in the bud, and get it over with.  Then he has to chose to stay or go, and you don’t spend weeks worrying.

Femininity vs. Bitchiness as Protection

Because of the above, femininity is a better protection from weak men and time wasters than bitchiness.

Femininity is almost universally attractive.  In fact, it can make you exponentially more attractive even if you have perceived or actual physical flaws.  Men will be drawn to you even if they’re not sure why.  However, if they aren’t strong enough for you or something is amiss in their lives that makes them unsuitable for you, your femininity will drive them out of your life much more quickly and decisively than bitchiness.

Behaving mistrustful or dismissively puts men on the defensive.  Liars and deceivers expect to be treated with suspicion because they are deceitful.  They’re prepared with answers and maneuvers for in case a woman doesn’t believe what they say.  Weak men don’t expect to be treated like strong men.  In fact, they hate being treated with respect.  It happens to them so rarely that it creeps them out.

Giving guys the benefit of the doubt is irrational in a very good and feminine way.  Guys who aren’t prepared to be the man in the relationship, will not like it when you automatically begin to be the woman in the relationship.  So yes, you’ll lose face because you’re the one reaching out and behaving like their adoring fangirl, but you are the girl, so this isn’t supposed to bother you.  Face saving games and keeping “hand” is for men, not for women.

In some cultures though (like Israeli culture, for example) a certain level of a particular flavor of bitchiness is required in relationships.  This is not real predatory bitchiness, but a sort of “Klingon” like show of feminine strength to show that you would be a competent and faithful wife and mother.  In fact, most somewhat traditional cultures require that a woman be capable of merciless selection, hard-assedness, and putting down of one’s foot.  As the sexual initiator (one of the first few women a man has sex with before he chooses a wife), mistress/side-chick, or lover, you may be exempt from certain duties, but just be aware that desires don’t all change just because the situation is out of the box.

Without a ring and paperwork, your status is somewhat more volatile, so you want to take care not to give too much of it away.  So lead with your femininity, but don’t allow yourself to become a pushover.  You don’t want to get into a situation where a guy treats you like a slave outside of a BDSM context, who has the requirements of a wife without the status of a wife.

You Know He Loves You

You know a man loves you not when he says it to get sex or more intense sex from you, but when he says it to get you to let him spend money on you.

Marriage

Somewhere along the line, your man might want to marry you.  There’s nothing wrong with this per se, but do realize that it will no longer be a relationship based on trust and free choice to be together.  Marriage is quite often the death of a good relationship, just as a contract is the end of good faith.

Be careful, especially if you are over 30, that you are not accepting a commitment to correct or regain something from your past.  That is not the right reason.  Love isn’t even the right reason by itself.  It should be because you love each other AND marriage is necessary to stabilize both of your lives together, not just to validate the relationship.

6 Comments

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  2. Yo I’m the girl who invented the slut rule’s. And hell no these rules are not true. You’ve got tp make yourself appealing but classy. Stick to your own game and never ever do this bout love. Rule #1 never please yourself but please the man your working with. Theredically

    • Actually, you come off more like a man who may or may not have a vagina, who posted a bunch of sociopathic deathwish material for women who like to get raped or something. My set is for women who understand that gender is not a social construct and that behaving like a man only gets you closeted Gays and psychos.

    • I understand how things may look, but you\’ve been misprogramed by a sick culture that has already succeeded in destroying the family, and now seeks to destroy us as individuals as well. Turning off your natural emotions might seem like a good idea, but it is sick. It is the way to becoming not even like a man but like a sociopath or at least a malignant narcissist. Men may distinct love from sex, but they do have feelings. Becoming unfeeling is not putting you at an equal level with them. Addressing your feelings and operating according to what you know about yourself is the way.

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  4. If I have to follow a One Dick Rule, then he better be ready to follow the One Pussy Rule. Men are notorious for throwing other women in our faces, and then calling us “jealous” when we get sick of being disrespected. I don’t do double standards. Sorry.

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