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Does misandry exist? – Quora

Not minimizing the things that cross genders, but blow for blow, the worst towards men comes from other men. Men enforce compliance with both the gender and ethnic hierarchical structure with violence. Source: (210) Nicole Tanit Nefertaueret Lasher’s answer to Does misandry exist? Some girl online laughed at the fact I pointed out sexism towards men. – Quora

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sex as a social construct – scatterplot

G4G Comment This is an interesting blog post that gives some food for thought. Though I try to be as balanced as possible, using the terms “women” and “feminine people” or both when warranted, I may have been guilty of some harmful oversimplification. Even though I myself am variable gendered, I consider myself female or “afab” (assigned female at birth). After reading this and now understanding that aside of the firmly intersex, “milder” intersexuality isn’t so exceptional, I hope to…

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‘The Matrix’ Was A Trans Allegory All Along, Confirms Co-Creator Lilly Wachowski | HuffPost

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Here is a wonderful middle finger to all the bigoted jerks running around calling yourselves “red pill”. It was not about you. It was never about you. Your colonized, overly repressive, mindless authoritarianism is the matrix.

“I’m glad that it has gotten out that that was the original intention,” Wachowski said.

Source: ‘The Matrix’ Was A Trans Allegory All Along, Confirms Co-Creator Lilly Wachowski | HuffPost

Dating Apps Are Dead And So Are Many Who Used Them


Almost everybody single or poly or on the d/l tried them. Most of the women had the same bad experiences, just some more or some less. A scant few had got lucky and had good experiences. Yet no matter how the companies tried to play with who initiated or how, and whether or not someone could report bad behavior after the fact, nothing could be done about the raw material. The same guys using the dating apps are the same…

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Hello Again World! 2020 Update

Welcome to Game for Girls, the blog for the diamonds strewn throughout the broken glass. Periodically, I’ll be posting articles relevant to us.  Feel free to comment, or if you do it enough, you can post articles yourself. G4G 2020 As 2019 draws to a close, I thought that it’s about time to update the site with what I and others in my circle of webmasters, spiritual counselors, and opinionated friends around the world have learned since 2008. I first…

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