Dating Apps Are Dead And So Are Many Who Used Them

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Almost everybody single or poly or on the d/l tried them. Most of the women had the same bad experiences, just some more or some less. A scant few had got lucky and had good experiences. Yet no matter how the companies tried to play with who initiated or how, and whether or not someone could report bad behavior after the fact, nothing could be done about the raw material. The same guys using the dating apps are the same…

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Swirling Caution: Closet Racists in Interracial Relationships

You think you’re smart, right?  You know all the signs of a jerk or a sicko, and you’re watchful when you meet this guy.  He passes all of your filters successfully, and seems like a real prize…until a month or later in the relationship.  Suddenly, red flags start popping up everywhere, and you wonder how you missed that this guy was crazy. You didn’t miss any signs.  He is not necessarily a narcissist or borderline.  He doesn’t behave this way…

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